When you are looking for a bride by mail, using mail order brides service try not to write anything about sex in your first letters (for example: "I would like to kiss you all" or "at me the desire at once has appeared"...) You can be sure that you will lose her immediately (even if she is a sex - symbol, or she has huge sense of humor). You also should be suspicious to those girls, who start to write with the first letters in a sexual manner. I think they are not thinking about marriage but about some other things. Sure you should be attentive to these facts only if you are looking for a future bride but not for a girl with whom you want to spend one night. It is not necessary to write about the selfless love in a first or a second mail. It doesn't sound sincerely. Don't use such words as "very rich", "very perspective", "I dream to make you happy". Do not compare her with other women! (every woman wants to be special). Do not appoint dates in one country with several women in same time (there will be many unpleasant histories), don't have love affairs with only one woman from the first mail, but also it is not necessary to correspond with a lot of women (if you have liked you after several letters or conversations) - you will get confused and will not have enough time to keep in touch with all women. If it is possible check up correctness of the information, which you have received from her. But also do not make to her infinite checks (the woman has much more vulnerable both thin soul and constant checks will kill her open attitude to you).
Don't forget that the photo and the real woman can be much different, as the ground and the sky. It is better not to get used to the photo. When you meet with her for the first time be sure that you will see another person. Frequently a man gets used to the photo and falls in love with this image. Then, at a meeting it turns out, that the photo and the real appearance differ. As a result the man is disappointed. The real woman is not worse than the face on her photo, she is simply different. Your noble acts, your genuine interest, your care, participation, your unostentatious persistence, your accurate approach, your generosity in the broad sense of the word, your true desire to have strong family - necessarily will find the response in that female heart which so is desired for you.