Unpleasant situations which mail order brides can face

Imagine an unpleasant situation - you arrived, and he... two years ago I had a happiness to visit States and to work, having a visa J1. At the same time it was introduced to the fellow of my age (we were19 years old). We were encountered about two months and two weeks lived together .I left in the middle of October, and the process of obtaining the visa of bride was in summer begun by the following. We wrote letters to each other, called and dreamed to meet again. I knew that the Americans so early are not married, but...

And here I am for a week in America. On the second day after my arrival it solved, that yet not "enough man to get married". It considers that us one ought not to have any close relations, since it greatly loves me and does not want to experience the bitterness of separation as this was two years ago.

Let us leave in the side of emotion. Even without them situation is very unpleasant: "the brides visa" reveals for three months - you must leave or get married in this time (for that, who you called as the mail order bride, or for someone also, whom quickly you will seek out on the spot - it occurs and such), or to leave the country or to pass to the illegal position. Last version does intend the knowledge of language, the possibility to seek out work and a constant risk to "be caught"- indeed similar illegal a stay in the country is fraught with deportation without the right sometimes again to arrive. Having on the hands a letter, in which your groom expressed the intention to be married, you can at least demand to return you to the native land and to compensate your expenditures for trip to it.